Suspected cheating

[efences]

Hi Guys,

I have a feeling my wife may be having an affair. Shes secretive with Facebook and her phone. I found a mobile phone number written down which I know i wasnt meant to see.

Is there anyway of checking if that number has been used? Either as a call or text?

Im so gutted but dont want to confront her til i have solid evidence.

I dont know her online account password or username for her phone bill. And i doubt T Mobile will disclose that info

Please help.

Thank you in advance.

Desperate times call for desperate measures.

[karenmac60]

Exactly, it's like reading someone else's mail or something.

[joeluke]

Anyone having an affair should be switched on enough to double check that they delete any messages from the other person

How many of you who are so 'protective' of your mobiles have secretly checked a partners phone while for example they've been in the shower and left it lying around though?

[joeluke]

Been there, done that!

[joeluke]

It seems like it at the time though

[boxtops]

We don't look at each other's phones (or answer them) any more than we would open each other's mail.

[4getmenot]

Even if she isnt you do not trust her, a relationship needs trust, you shouldnt be together

[arwyn]

My first husband broke us up because he had a 16 year old girlfriend, (us both 31/32 years old). SO second husband SO pays for it, I check his phone-e,mails-pockets. He never mind at all, he shows me them, and lets me know his every move. I must add I only check every now and then.

[joeluke]

Arwyn......have you fitted him with a tracking device too?

[karenmac60]

Hi Pinki, I honestly don't know. I've never been in the position of suspecting a partner so have never had any call to check up on him. I'd like to think that I'd still respect his privacy and ask him outright if I did think he was up to anything - but he's not the sort to do anything like that so it's all speculative anyway :)

[ummmm]

I don't agree. If your partner has started acting differently only a fool would ignore it.

[cazzz1975]

arnwyns reaction is common amongst people who have been cheated on, it does have long term affects however fun it may seem for the cheater

[arwyn]

joeluke ha ha I have a mental one, i'm always seeing where he is in my head... but it's a great idea------- "pet look what I'v got you for xmass" ha ha. it,s 13 years so he must'nt mind

[arwyn]

He really does'nt mind he says it shows i care..