Personally I think a man who has been sexually abused is just as much a victim as a woman. But off you go with your tittering. If this was in CB and phrased a bit differently fair enough, but its not.
Wouldn't call it abuse as such, but some years ago I worked for the RSPCA. I had a manager that made it known that she had a thing for me....started of by telling me that her husband didn't ...err, how shall we say...satisfy her! Sometimes turned up at my home with a few bottles of wine (which I gladly drunk) but just wasn't honestly interested with her as anything more than a friend/colleague
All turned a bit sour in the end.