naomi, I haven't read all the posts but I just want to say I agree with you 100%.
I don't know if you saw an interview with Prince Edward yesterday, but he was being asked some questions which he answered politely until the question came up about the baby being called Lilibet and he did not answer that question at all, he completely evaded it.
To those who are saying would H&M have used this name without the Queens blessing, I would say to those people, did you think they would ever give the interview that they gave? Do you think Harry would ever complain about the way he was brought up, all on national television?
I believe these two are capable of anything, and until an official statement comes from the Queen, we will never know whether she gave her blessing or not.