Dating Men

[sssg4]

Ok,

so here goes. I gave my number to a guy outside a club. Was quite drunk but wouldn't give my number to someone I didn't like!

He text the next day and after a couple of weeks of texting back and forth we finally went on a date. It went so so well and I really liked him. Texts exchanged again but after a few he got a bit immature-messages got a bit sexual. Anyway, he got the hint I was not impressed so he left me alone for a while. A couple of drunkard voice messages-a bit immature!

Anyway, I told him he needed to redeem himself (just banter-both jokers). He called a couple of times but then didn't hear from him for a few days so I text him. It took him 3 days to reply and it wasn't even a reply-he was asking if I was out on Sat night-be nice to see me. I replied a few hrs later saying yes but got nothing back. I saw him out-he was very drunk and was trying to kiss me all night but said he really liked me and was introducing me to all his friends.

Anyway at the end of the night (both very drunk) something was said to annoy us both so I walked off.

I got a call to see if I was home ok but signal cut out. I text and said to call Sunday but nothing. So, I sent another text. Got a reply yesterday saying when are we going out next?

I know I shouldn't be bothered but he's got a hold on me but I can't understand his game. I've told him I ain't easy so he ain't gonna get ought out of me so why is he still bothered (but then again-not some of the tim).

Guys and gals-views please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sarah

[andy-hughes]

It sounds like he is imature, and fancies you when he rmembers, or when he sees you and he's drunk.

This sounds like a disasterous way to run a relationship - you say you are 'not easy', yet your initial behaviour proves otherwise.

You have two choices - either leave this boy to play with girls his own mental age, and find yourself an adult to go out with, or if, this is your idea of fun, go where he goes, be as drunk as he is, and see what happens.

He hasn't 'got a hold on you' and he isn't playing a game - work out of you prefer the company of children or adults, and sort out your approach to social situations accordingly.

[teag1rl]

he sounds like someone I know, and had the misfortune to know a lot better. I learnt the hard way though and I'm stronger for it. Anyway, my answer: I don't think you're going to get what you want off this guy, he's a player. Go out have a really good time with your friends, ignore him and watch him come running but never put out and you'll find someone who deserves you-he doesn't.

[WendyS]

This guy sounds as if he's drunk more often than he's sober. Give him a wide berth and delete his phone number from your mobile. If he doesn't respect you enough to stay sober even when trying to start up a relationship he'll probably give you even more grief once you get to know him better. He needs time to grow up - but not with you !

[fo3nix]

forget him. not worth bothering about.

[Dbeats01]

There is something there you like about this guy. Give it a go!! what you got to loss

[JudgeJ]

How does what work?