Love online

[Teddy_boy]

I have joined many online sites to find a partner. But personally i find that at 51 years old and after a divorce a few years back , its very diffficult to form a lasting relationship. Many of the women i have met are so busy in their own working life that they are only looking for casual encounters. Call me old fashioned but i set out looking for love and as of yet after 6 months im no nearer. Yes i have been intimate with women.And found it very enjoyable. But im starting to think that either the women dont want to commit and then change their current lifestyle , or perhaps im only good enough for some casual meeting and im not worthy of a commitment from them. Im starting to feel cheap.When im alone i cry , and i know man shouldnt do this, but i feel like my life is empty.I have nothing and im just living day to day.Its like life is passing me by.I feel unwanted and surplus.People i work with think im a happy jolly guy , but really im very sad.Sometimes i go to bed and think that if i never wakened then noone would even know.Or care. When all i really want is a nice woman to spend my time with and grow old with.But i just cant find them.Am i just undesireable ?

[rowanwitch]

Murrymints cucumbers may get you offers from interested ladies....if you get my meaning....might be better to stand near the strawberries or something

[Sqad]

rowan.......LOL

No! no!" hello, I often see you here and marvel how well turned out you are and what a lucky man your husband is to wake up each morning to someone like "wot you are"
If I was married to someone like you, I would never let you out of my sight, oh! and by the way, my wife left me for another fellow some six months ago. Well I must go now..blast....how does one cook an omelette?

Let me help you to the car with your shopping............."""

[Sqad]

Den...oi! remember that old Chinese proverb......."She who laughs, last , long lasts longest...........bu99er it I have forgotten it ;-)

[DEN53]

Thats no good Sqad - time you had said all that, they would have lost their place in the supermarket check out queue.................

[rowanwitch]

He who can cause snickers will get in her knickers...

[Sqad]

rowan....I like that...LOL..........any chance?

[rowanwitch]

sorry Sqad one man woman now.....

[DEN53]

And he who eats Snickers will be wearing bigger knickers...........

[rowanwitch]

Teddy-boy another thought....volunteering... within an area you are already interested in....likely to meet a more serious type of woman in those sort of settings

[Sqad]

rowan....a whole bag of snickers?

[redman41]

LOL ! Cucumbers v Snickers, the choice is yours !! lol

[rowanwitch]

Not even tempted... teddy-boy don't follow sqad's example keep looking for Ms Right

[murraymints]

WELLLLLLLLL !!!!!! despite actually being FEMALE...... i am back from ASDA ...somewhat delayed by being waylaid..as it where... by the brussel sprouts !!!! not a cucumber in sight.... and those crushed pringles..get... EVERYWHERE !!!!

[murraymints]

Sqad... dont know what we are waitiing for mate ..... i have the gumption...wot you got ?....

[murraymints]

pink lady... you seem to be a woman of the world you will know how DEVASTATED I am at rejection !!!......... will I ever be the same ?

[Teddy_boy]

Been to to tescos tonight but never met anyone.

[Teddy_boy]

I must say i never expected such a varied selection of answers.Im a bit old for xbox i think but will consider other ideas.