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Teddy_boy | 01:33 Wed 12th Jan 2011 | Relationships & Dating
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I have joined many online sites to find a partner. But personally i find that at 51 years old and after a divorce a few years back , its very diffficult to form a lasting relationship. Many of the women i have met are so busy in their own working life that they are only looking for casual encounters. Call me old fashioned but i set out looking for love and as of yet after 6 months im no nearer. Yes i have been intimate with women.And found it very enjoyable. But im starting to think that either the women dont want to commit and then change their current lifestyle , or perhaps im only good enough for some casual meeting and im not worthy of a commitment from them. Im starting to feel cheap.When im alone i cry , and i know man shouldnt do this, but i feel like my life is empty.I have nothing and im just living day to day.Its like life is passing me by.I feel unwanted and surplus.People i work with think im a happy jolly guy , but really im very sad.Sometimes i go to bed and think that if i never wakened then noone would even know.Or care. When all i really want is a nice woman to spend my time with and grow old with.But i just cant find them.Am i just undesireable ?
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Sara the lifestyle i meant was the one they have become accustomed to.Where they can have their cake and eat it , some might say .
Saturday nights Teddy-boy saturday nights
whatever you do teddy-boy - good luck - I can vouch for the fact that you can bump into the right person at most unexpected places. I met my husband when neither of us was even looking for a relationship - as others have said, being relaxed about it, and not looking too hard, often pays dividends!
^^ Ditto.
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So if i linger in the bakery department of tescos on saturday night , i may get some crumpet?or even the odd tart or two?Perhaps even a french fancy?
or a slap ;o)
Teddy-boy I laught at you'r last post, I never thought of it like that ha ha. Maybe it's best to go to a pub and not to be thinking to much about french fancys ha ha.
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Sara wants to slap me!And reading her posts she sounded ratehr nice. Hey ho i suppose i will have to live and learn.Arwyn you may be right , then again a drunk man isnt a pretty sight but a drunk woman , though ever more common these days , is even less appealing than the thought of a slap from sara.
Have you took any of the advice you got on here? was it helpfull? tell me to mind my own business if you want. Its just I'm really nebby
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What does nebby mean? I did go to tescos and im planning a staurday night shop. I have looked in the mirror and have decided that im happyish with how i am and would like to met someone with a similar opinion , rather than tart myself up to ensnare the lady. Take me for better or worse rather than give the lady a false impression.
nebby means nosey, I never ment for you to change your self, sorry if it came across that way, all I ment was a hair cut of some thing. you are wright she should take you for who you are.. good look on the night out
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Well i like to go fishing so i understand the necessity of patience when trying to get the perfect catch.
Try the Saga web site if you have not done so already
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Im not ready for the saggy sagas quite yet.
and at 51 you're not ready for the saggy saga ? What would you like, a sweet 26 year old t do? Grow up and join a club which interests you and don't show how keen you are :D
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Pinklady what age range are you in ? Albawqerty whhat about your age range ?
I don't need to look for an age range thanks. Am in one and so is my other half.

Hi Pink x
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I wasnt propositioning you albaqwerty i was merely asking. Trying to see what your opinion is on ages ectcetera?
teddy-boy, age doesn't matter. You will know when you meet the right lady.

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